She blames me for being selfish;
She blames me for what she has done;
She knows what I hate the most;
but she doesn't know why the scars are here, right here.
I hate the noise that he is making;
I hate the quarrelling and slamming;
I hate the yelling and shouting and;
I wish I was sleeping, deeply.
I know I was avoiding the reality;
I know I was pretending asleep;
and I know the cutting is coming back, to me.
I am not being selfish,
I am just being a coward;
A coward who wish to stay away from the reality;
A coward who wish to stop the quarreling but, couldn’t.
Monday, February 16, 2009
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
No hostility towards anyone?????????
As a human-being, you can’t expect everyone to like you, it is the same theory as you can’t like everyone.
Do you think that you are an angel with an enormous big heart that everyone will like you or vice versa? Don’t be silly.
People who said they have no enmity towards anyone have 2 reasons. First, they got a damn high EQ. Second, they are hiding their own true feeling. No matter which reason it is, they are hell good in coping with this reality.
We can’t deny that this is the way we survive in this contemporary world. We have to design different masks each and every time we walk out from the house to handle different kind of people. Do you still think that those people who speak without thinking or they said something without making observation are adorable and cuuuuttteee like what have shown on the TV? Ha ha ha…veli da funny.
Yup, perhaps you don’t need to take any precautions while talking to these people because they think and speak at the same time, they hide nothing from you and don’t need to squeeze your brain juice just to figure out what are the hints lying upon their words. WooaaawWW that’s the great one, the only. Of course they can survive but they will face more difficulties than those who speak after they think, frankly.
As a PR, we are taught not to raise conflict, not to exaggerate difficulties, not to offend and not to leave the negative matter hanging. We learn to mind our words, we learn to govern our temper & we learn to looove others, which is the real hard one but we can do it, you just need 2 weapons-smiiille & high EQ.
Incredibly high EQ is definitely the best weapon. The best spokesperson is whoooo?? Lin Chi Ling lo-the man’s angel. You can choose not to fall for her super duper sweet voice but you can’t deny that she got an awesome EQ. She never shows her temper (in front of the public), she never fight back the negative rumours, wait…….she did but in a very EQ way. That’s the virtue of her.
No matter what it is, as a lady, we should not throw temper in front of others. Don’t let yourselves blown off in front of others. If really cannot stand it, walk away. I personally feel that this is as hard as to solve this math-Yd(JSDJ-KDKS)x(sjdjsk+JNSAN)=??. Can you imagine that when someone mock you and you just walk away as if they were right about you? NO WAY. If that really happen to me!!!!!!, tell ya what, I WILLLLLL LLL DEFINITELY walk awayyyyy. Opps. Sometimes when you fight back, those people will think ‘oh, deny=admit.’ But when you just walk away, you are not fulfilling their ‘needs’, ‘desire’ and ‘SATISFACTION’!! They wish you will get pissed off but you didn’t. This indicates that you are actually sending out signals that ‘I’ll remain silent, sry to disappoint you, you LOSER.’
Really, sometimes is hard for you to just walk away and let them continue but you just have to learn it. It is good for your health somehow. By the way, have you come across with this sentence before?
‘Remain Silent is a Virtue.’
Do you think that you are an angel with an enormous big heart that everyone will like you or vice versa? Don’t be silly.
People who said they have no enmity towards anyone have 2 reasons. First, they got a damn high EQ. Second, they are hiding their own true feeling. No matter which reason it is, they are hell good in coping with this reality.
We can’t deny that this is the way we survive in this contemporary world. We have to design different masks each and every time we walk out from the house to handle different kind of people. Do you still think that those people who speak without thinking or they said something without making observation are adorable and cuuuuttteee like what have shown on the TV? Ha ha ha…veli da funny.
Yup, perhaps you don’t need to take any precautions while talking to these people because they think and speak at the same time, they hide nothing from you and don’t need to squeeze your brain juice just to figure out what are the hints lying upon their words. WooaaawWW that’s the great one, the only. Of course they can survive but they will face more difficulties than those who speak after they think, frankly.
As a PR, we are taught not to raise conflict, not to exaggerate difficulties, not to offend and not to leave the negative matter hanging. We learn to mind our words, we learn to govern our temper & we learn to looove others, which is the real hard one but we can do it, you just need 2 weapons-smiiille & high EQ.
Incredibly high EQ is definitely the best weapon. The best spokesperson is whoooo?? Lin Chi Ling lo-the man’s angel. You can choose not to fall for her super duper sweet voice but you can’t deny that she got an awesome EQ. She never shows her temper (in front of the public), she never fight back the negative rumours, wait…….she did but in a very EQ way. That’s the virtue of her.
No matter what it is, as a lady, we should not throw temper in front of others. Don’t let yourselves blown off in front of others. If really cannot stand it, walk away. I personally feel that this is as hard as to solve this math-Yd(JSDJ-KDKS)x(sjdjsk+JNSAN)=??. Can you imagine that when someone mock you and you just walk away as if they were right about you? NO WAY. If that really happen to me!!!!!!, tell ya what, I WILLLLLL LLL DEFINITELY walk awayyyyy. Opps. Sometimes when you fight back, those people will think ‘oh, deny=admit.’ But when you just walk away, you are not fulfilling their ‘needs’, ‘desire’ and ‘SATISFACTION’!! They wish you will get pissed off but you didn’t. This indicates that you are actually sending out signals that ‘I’ll remain silent, sry to disappoint you, you LOSER.’
Really, sometimes is hard for you to just walk away and let them continue but you just have to learn it. It is good for your health somehow. By the way, have you come across with this sentence before?
‘Remain Silent is a Virtue.’
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